When you condemn yourself, do you know that you're not looking to the Lord because you look to the Lord, you will see that he is your righteousness.
Start hearing messages of grace, hallelujah. Start seeing what Christ has done, amen.
Oil is a type of the Holy Spirit, why? If a door is creaking, right, you just put some oil in the hinges, and it creaks no more. It's smooth, amen? When the anointing comes on you, everything becomes smooth. Your work becomes smooth. Everything you do, your parenting becomes smooth, amen. The conflict, the friction is no longer there, amen. You're operating by the wisdom of God, the supernatural ease to what you are doing. Praise the name of Jesus.