The way you feel comes from what you've been thinking about. "Oh, I'm depressed," or, "Oh, I don't feel good". Why, what have you been thinking about? "Well, I've been thinking about this bill due, and I ain't got no money to pay the bill, and I don't know how to pay the bill". And you're not thinking about the right thing. Just because the situation exists doesn't mean you have to let it stay in your head and think about it, and then it governs your emotions. Now, watch what happens. Once it gets into your emotions, your emotions are now designed to move you 'cause the next step is making a decision.